The Language Of Hypnosis

When last have you thought about a white horse? Whether consciously or sub-consciously, this sentence made you think of a white horse. This is called a post hypnotic question, which planted an image in your mind.

What if you were able to convince people to do things by simply telling them to? A professional hypnotherapist in Darwin can do that (sort of), just in a less-intrusive and controlling way that you may think.

Words are a powerful tool used by a hypnotherapist and are aimed at penetrating your mind and altering your thought process.

Although very high-level, there are ways in which words and language can be applied in everyday lives in ways we are not even aware of. Words that are said to us or shown to us have a significant impact on our though processes even though we do not realise it.

A quite controversial science, neuro-linguistic programming (NLP) uses hypnotic suggestion (through language) to intentionally have a hypnotic effect on the listener or reader.

This technique is often used in political speeches, sales pitches or advertising and sees the tone, wording and speed of the message carefully constructed to create a certain idea and evoke a certain feeling amongst listeners or readers.

However, the technique is not only used by these parties. We use it every day, consciously or sub-consciously, to convey our emotions and our inner thoughts when we speak, to maintain an image or to convince people to agree with us or help us.

There are various ways in which words can be used to create an idea. Knowing how to use them is another thing entirely. A few ways in which you can more effectively use words to connect with people on a deeper level include:

  • Painting pictures with words
  • Use selective words that convey the emotion you want to evoke and don’t use words that can have a different meaning
  • Speak with purpose and keep it short and sweet
  • Avoid the use of negatives in a sentence, especially when giving instructions
  • Smile when you are talking
  • Speak clearly
  • Think before you speak

The science of NLP recognises the fact that the conscious and sub-conscious minds work differently and even that their strengths lie in different places. A good way to experiment with NLP is to get to know how the mind works and what it is good at to be able to focus your concentration on areas that need to be developed and are easily influenced. This can be achieved through meditation, which is a good starting point for getting in touch with the inner self.


Life Beyond Work: Aged Care

As life goes on, it can seem that what once was an easy task becomes slightly more and more difficult until it can feel impossible.  This is because growing up and growing old takes its toll on each and every single person. Regardless of whether an individual remains activity into their old age, the body is slowly changing. It is not as fast as it was once in youth, meaning that the tasks that were completed with ease are now tasks that require some effort and concentration.

Many people who are older, however, can still continue to live this way. While things may be extra effort, many people can live independently on their own merit and continue to look after themselves. However, there is no shame in getting help should someone need it. Some may be capable but prefer to have extra help for tasks such as cooking and cleaning. Others may need help with transportation or with shopping. For those who do wish to have help, there are a plethora of aid and assistance that fall under the category of aged care.

This term refers to a service that is provided for the elderly who need help with basic living skills, like cooking or cleaning, or may need a little more intricate care. Individuals who use this service can still maintain independence, but others may wish to live as part of a community. This aid and assistance can come in several different ways, which include; home, retirement village and residential places.

At home help in home care services in Victoria, those who offer aid and assistance may come to the individual’s owned home. They may make the meals and do the cleaning and provide company. They may also provide a way for the individual to get around by driving them the places the individual wishes to see or go.  The aid may come in everyday or only a few times a week, depending on how necessary their company is.

Individuals may not be able to live by themselves at home anymore, even with the extra help. In this event, the best option may be to move into a retirement village. Retirement villages are community places that give each individual their own room, to maintain some independence. In some cases retirement villages may even have kitchenettes available but in other cases, the meals may be eaten in common room with everyone who resides in the place.

Residential places are much like retirement villages but with more options like the disability services New South Wales. They are required, by law, to have on-call-aid at all times, to prepare, cook and serve food to all the patrons living there and to have access to nurses. These residential places can be owned by anyone, ranging from a church to local government, but they must ensure that the centre is maintained and that furniture and rooms are constantly catered to. These three options are only some of the options open to individuals in that stage of their life.